Wednesday, October 04, 2006

I think I'm falling for my best guy friend. We went to prom together last year as friends and I thought there might be chemistry there but I didn't push it. We've been hanging out and I'm falling hard... What should I do? I don't want to ruin a friendship


Anonymous
04:26:08 PM

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

did you ask him or he ask you? to prom i mean

Anonymous said...

same situation...minus the prom. i really hope he asks me to prom. i really hope.

Anonymous said...

for the record..I dated one of my best friends for almost a year. When our relationship ended it has not been even close to what our friendship was before the relationship. theres always a chance. maybe you will have better luck then I did. but if you have feelings for this person, and he has them back. why not? its just another stage together.

Anonymous said...

elaine and jerry did it, so can you.

knight_racer979 said...

Go for it.

I have had quite a few relationships with good friends that didn't work out. My rule is friends first and foremost. If the friendship was strong before the relationship, why should that change afterwards? Awkwardness only exists if you let it.

Take a chance, because if you don't you may miss out on one of the most fulfilling relationships you ever have. What have you got to lose except your current doubts? Ask. If he says no, your question is answered and you can move on. If he says yes...well then.

Good luck to all, in life and in love. And may a blanket of peace fall over the troubled in their sleep, that all burdens may be lifted and all hearts may be set free.

Anonymous said...

I asked him and he was glad he said yes... We had a wonderful time