If it turns out I'm pregnant, it will be the strangest mix of joy and sorrow in my life.
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please dont kill your baby if it turns out you're pregnant.
i'm not trying to start a controversial discussion here. according to the supreme court you have all the right to do so if you want.
but please dont. your baby will thank you later when s/he grows up that s/he's not dead.
Really? When was the last time you told your parents, "Mom and Dad... thank you so much for not having an abortion and allowing me to grow, and live, and experience, and blah blah blah."
I'd be interested to hear anybody say that to their parents.
Poster one, you go get pregnant, then decide whether or not one life is really worth all the freedom and happiness of another.
I thought I was pregnant for nearly two months that turned out to just be the longest set of missed periods in my life. I was a lucky one.
I wish you well OP, and pray for you to whatever gods will listen. Its tough. I feel like I've got some kind of odd bond with you though, through this computer screen. I wish I could give you a hug.
Good luck.
i tell my mom everyday "thanks for not aborting me i know how much you wanted to" doesnt everyone else? make your own choice op decide if you have the struce for a child in your life and then make the choice.
uhmm thats not really what i meant.
i was gonna be born retarded and live for two weeks. but my mom went through the pregnancy and i was born fine. i'm glad they didnt abort me because then i wouldnt be here today.
if you knew your parents were thinking about aborting you (most parents never tell their children they were thinking about abortion), wouldnt you be happy they didnt? and thank them for that?
I guess it all depends on whether your life is wonderful or whether it sucks to the point where you'd rather be dead.
Abort it and don't look back. (that is if it's going to be a burden or detriment to the rest of your life) What do you owe a ball of useless flesh? What did it ever do for you? If you don't have this kid that just means you'll have another one later on in life when you're more prepared and can better provide for both of you. Have the baby now and screw up the rest of your life (creating fewer and poorer lives in the long run), or abort, wait, and build a life where you can give multiple children lives that you can be proud of. Your choice. That's my two cents.
i don't think the OP was actually asking our opinions on whether or not to abort the child. from the sound of things, it just seems like she wants to know/tell someone if she is pregnant.
i know you're not asking for anyone's opinion, but either have it and put it up for adoption, or abort. keeping it is not an option at your age, assuming you're about the same age as the rest of us (unless you're independently wealthy and want to put your life on hold for the next 20 years+).
yeah yeah, kids are our future blah, blah, blah. but kids fucking suck ass and will destroy any chance of a life you might have. better to have one when you have a loving husband that's got your back, and some financial and emotional stability.
now, off to the adoption agency/abortion clinic with ya!!!
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