so what exactly is considered cheating on your girfriend?
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If you don't know, it probably is.
I wouldn't call it cheating unless you kissed someone else. However, if you are flirtingwith, touching excessively, or becoming increasingly interested in someone else, I think that you need to consider how much you want to stay with your girlfriend. Also consider how fair you're being to her by having thoughts about someone else, and why you feel unsatisfied in your relationship now (if that's the case).
if it makes u feel guilty, it's probably bad
well even people who own a car like to look at the the shiny new sports car. just make sure you dont change the oil or any other fluids.
well there was touching...just not anywhere inappropriate.
well TECHNICALLY I think most would agree the line is drawn at kissing and up (anything that would constitute passing a "base" if we go by the baseball analogy),
but like sekaf said if you're constantly flirting and "appropriately touching someone" but it just happens to be in a non-plutonic manner, you might want to take a moment to reevaluate yourself.
Of course if you're just talking about the whole "I got drunk(or high, or whatever) and didn't know what I was doing" scenario, then yes, kissing and beyond is the line determined to be "cheating".
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PChis, I really hope you were talking about love that transcends physical desire, not a dark underworld love.
thanks anonymous, I'm sure everyone was so confused by that. How's being a jerk going for you?
yea i was drunk and i have a problem...not with drinking but with controlling my desires i guess. i absolutely love my girlfriend and would never do anything to hurt her emotionally so i feel like a real ass for what almost happened. i stopped it before we actually did something because i knew it wasn't right. we didn't kiss or do anything more it was just a guy being a guy and getting a little horny and wanting to solve the problem. i'm not saying that as an excuse but i am saying we didn't do anything serious.
I'm glad you feel bad and I'm glad nothing happened. It happens to a lot of people.
Just try to lay off the liquor unless your gf is there next time k?
Being a jerk works out quite nicely. I would wager a bet that I enjoy it infinitely more than you enjoy being a prick, anonymous #5.
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