how do i reject someone who confessed just 3days ago without hurting him? i'll be seeing him twice a week and i realise we cant go any futher than being friends..
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A way to say it without hurting this person who has strong feelings for you? Hmm... there really is no way about it. He' not gonna like it, either way, but what you have to make him understand is that you're not rejecting him.
You are not rejecting the fact that you still want to pursue a friendly relationship with him... hopefully you can make him understand that, but he/you will probably still feel a little awkward around each other for a bit. It's a fact of life, but you better get it over with now or it can turn real ugly.
say you dont want to spoil your friendship, sya something like " i just value our friendship too much to risk it in a realtionship" or something to that accord.
Because everyone knows that that isn't a bullshit cop out answer...
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Yeah... it really is a cop out.
I definitely just meant tell him you didn't return his feelings in the same intensity and you want friendship.
Though it's not an impossibility that he will feel you cannot maintain a mere friendship. C'est la vie.
that may be so but any answer you give is going to be a cop out answer or will probably seem like one
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