What would you do if you asked out this girl who totally likes you but cannot really date well because of crazy parents, and if there was another girl liked you a lot and you liked her back as well?
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09:55:51 PM
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Well... if this girl can't date then there's nothing really to be done about it. I mean, if you really care enough to do this, I suppose you could ask her parents if you could have a mature conversation with them about it, not so much the "Look, chill out" kind of thing, but ask politely if you could take her out in a group to start, etc. etc. You know, work from there. Try to make the least threatening moves possible.
If it doesn't work out, and you still value her as a friend (which you should *cough*) then at least allow a grace period before you start checking this other girl out. OH, and if you don't like this girl with "crazy parents" in the first place... stop everything now, do not pretend you want to date her, do not pass go, and do not collect $200.
I suppose it would be easier to go out with the girl that you like and that likes you back. However, keep in mind that it is not the girls fault that her parents are crazy. If she is willing to date you despite of them then try it out and see what happens. Just make it clear that it might not work out because of the parents. Plus, if you're a senior, then only 1 more year before she's free.
Do Not try to date a girl behind her parents back. Do Not. It will only lead to heartbreak for you and for her. Ultimately, I'm sorry her parents are more important than you ever will be. It is wrong for you to attempt encourage her to violate their trust. And you'll get screwed somehow.
I'm speaking from experience, having dated one girl who's parents were opposed and several whose parents were approving. The ones with parents proved to be much healthier and enjoyable relationships. Just don't do it.
and you cant really like two girls at once. pick one. and leave the other one alone. and dont do the whole....oh well i really liked this one more but it didnt work out b/c of her parents so i'll go to the other one.
girl2 will never know but she was your 'second' choice...and thats not very fair to her.
and its not very fair to girl1 either b/c its not her fault her parents are crazy. and if you really liked her more and she liked you a lot and you start going out with girl2....it will break her heart and you would be a deusche.
hahahahhahahah to the $200 thing.
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