We don't talk anymore.
It's as if because there's no more relationship (no more sex) I'm not worth it. That because we've seen each other naked, we can't be friends anymore so we shouldn't try.
I thought we promised it'd never be awkward. I thought we promised to always be friends. Every time I try to remind you, you push me farther away.
Should I just leave you alone?
Anonymous
07:13:56 PM
5 comments:
perhaps you should back off, at least for a while. your partner obviously feels awkward or something happened, regardless of your promise. chances are that he or she is having a hard time comming to terms with this. backing off for at least a while allows some time for rebuilding, and venting....
jerry and Elaine did it
Yes. You should leave him alone. When you leave a relationship that intense, you NEED time to re-adjust to yourself, and figure out that you aren't the same person as before you were with him. He needs his space, and as much as it will hurt, you do too. This doesn't mean you can't be friends ever, but it's unrealistic to think you can just smoothly transition into "just friends" without taking some time off to figure yourself out. I learned this the hard way. It hurts, but it will probably be OK after some time. Best of luck to you OP.
Some people can do just friends, some people can't. You need the cooling off period to figure it out though. I've only been able to be friends with one of my ex boyfriends.
guys need a cooling period
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