Tuesday, September 26, 2006

My boyfriend now knows I have feelings for another guy. He's lost all trust in me, and I can't blame him.

I'm the most worthless girl ever.


Anonymous
12:42:15 AM

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

No, youre just human. Relax

Anonymous said...

I can't disagree thats its a pretty shallow thing to do. It would have been better maybe to break up with him first? My sympathy lies in the boyfriend, how would it feel if your grilfriend stopped likeing you for someone else..

Anonymous said...

You are not nearly the most worthless of all of us. Not by a long shot. I'm not saying that it was the wisest thing that you've ever done in your life, but you could have fucked up a lot worse, when you think about it.

That's not very encouraging, I know, but the main thing is not to drown in self-pity. Figure out what it is you want, face the hard stuff, learn to deal with it, and grow stronger. It sucks now but it does get better.

Anonymous said...

OP: apologize to him, do the mature friends thing, and get over it.

Whatever you do, make sure you don't hurt him too badly. it already sounds like the regret is afefcting you in some way; don't make it worse for the both of you.

Anonymous said...

yea...and there's nothing wrong with liking someone else. maybe you should of broken up with him before he found out tho.

but i dont get why its 'so bad' to leave someone for someone else....people change their likings and what they think. i understand why it might be mean....but its natural.

see anon4...they seem pretty smart.