Could I be lesbian if I don't mind making out with girls and have made out with four in my life time? I DEFINITLY like guys... but shouldn't I be more reserved about kissing women?
I really need feed back... anyone else questioning their sexuality?
Anonymous
11:39:59 PM
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please describe your lesbian antics in graphic detail, including
what you look like and your ages.
i will then tell you if you have a problem.
Last time I checked there were shades of gray in sexuality, generally lumped under the umbrella term "bisexual."
Don't worry. A question posed at a birthday party at the beginning of last summer and a very strange string of events involving stage productions and girls in thongs sent me spinning off on an "omg am I bi???" tangent for the year, too. Happens to everyone, with differing answers.
You said you definitely like guys, so you're not a lesbian. A lesbian would be a woman who only likes other women. Still, it doesn't mean the gate can't swing both ways.
The question I would ask you is, did you like making out with the girls, not just "I didn't mind it"? You sound more adventurous and uninhibited than I was, which would help. If you decide that yes, you did derive pleasure from physical contact with other girls, then congratulations! You're a little bisexual and there's nothing wrong with it! If you decide that nah, it was kind of interesting, but not really all that hot, then congratulations! You're straight and there's nothing wrong with it!
And as for me? I'm still questioning whether I'm really bi or whether it's just a passing phase resultant from a weird summer and very attractive female friends. I won't know until I try, which I won't, because I'm shy and already have a boyfriend, anyway. I'll probably never know for sure, and until then, I just hope that Nanotyrannus doesn't mind my indecision. :D
pssst.. bi doesn't really exist... I'm gonna get flamed for this, but generally it is seen as a manifestation of multiple things: need/desire for physical contact (obvious), just indecision and search for identity (even if you're a teenager or young adult and are "sure" that you're one way or another.. you could be wrong, yeah?), and besides... anybody in the certain context will resort to homosexual/heterosexual tendencies. Humans need sex. Plain and simple. However, if you like kissing boys AND girls.. more power to ya.
^^Personally, I agree with that guy. Or girl. Or whatever.
Don't worry Swalest'shooth. I will wait.
anon 1, according to a study in the New York Times (in which I assume they showed people porn, strapped em up to brain readers, and made them masturbate...or something), both sexes are naturally attracted to the act of sex itself, but while women can have different attraction levels all across the spectrum, men are either very predominately male attracted or female attracted.
They said the study wasn't the hugest and most conclusive thing since sliced bread (so please don't kill them), but I thought that was interesting.
It just seems to make sense from what I see...
op, you aren't a lesbian, or even bi.
you are just VERY VERY HOT
"pssst.. bi doesn't really exist..."
Sorry, but until you find the chemical basis for sexual attraction, and show that brains are hardwired to only be attracted to one sex with absolutely no overlap (ie. until an article comes out locating the gay switch in everyone's head that can only flip one way or the other), then and only then will I believe you. Good luck with that...
Oh, certainly. There is a chemical basis for sexual attraction, it has to do with pheromones, biology, and a lot of other stuff. But no one's pretending that humans are not inexorably drawn to sex. Heck, Roman men used to get together and have sex with each other; it was perfectly normal.
However, I think in today's society, being bi is just being desperate. There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but it really depends on the culture, methinks.
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