i know we're not ready to have sex yet, but sometimes it bothers me that youre not pressuring me to do it. i guess its just a mattter of time but i hope i stil want you once you come around
a simple handjob is ok i suppose
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This is exactly how I feel about me and my boyfriend. Exactly. But he has to be the one to initiate it.
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the policy of the wake county public school system reminds you that abstinence is the best policy.
and people don't have sex 'till they're married. never.
;)
make a move. if you want something from him, push for it, or at least talk about it. a relationship should be based on openness, not mind reading.
As much as it is the primary function of (nearly) all males to have sex, it is very dangerous these days to be the one to initiate it. Many times, it is the woman that must pressure the man, lest he feel as if you think he's sexually harassing you. Then again, if you do initiate it, it might look as if you're a slut.
Basically, just wait and have sex when you're both ready, preferably when you're married. But the most important thing is to not push it.
You've got a long way to go before sex. You need to engage your boyfriend in conversation that will prompt him to know you'd like to do things.
Anonymous #2 is very wise -- relationships are not about mind reading. From experience in my relationship, we've finally started open conversation -- no more mind-reading. It goes a ways.
most desent guys dont wan to pressure a girl into sex anymore than the girl wants to be pressured. he probalbyy wants to but just doesnt want you to feel pressured.
I would have to second anonymous^'s opinion, as a guy myself, it feels that if one initiates too much talk of sex (or sex itself) it can break the relationship.
Wait. So you want him to pressure you for sex, but you know full well that you're not ready for it and wouldn't want to acutally have sex with him.... Yeesh!
If a guy's too pushy he's an insensitive pervert, and if he doesn't then he's an insulting wimp.
Now you see why we're confused girls!
^Personally, I'd be more forgiving of an insensitive pervert than an insulting wimp.
I see wimpiness as a personality flaw. It's too common of a weakness and I hate weak people. I would, for once, like to meet a guy that is willing to take total control of everything.
I am such a submissive.
And of course being reasonable and not pushing sex on your teenage girlfriend is a sign of weakness....right.
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