this has probably been the best week of my life. and sadly, it's because i've been cheating on my boyfriend with a really great guy.
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06:24:07 PM
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Just wait until it hits you how much of a liar you're being, and how any guy who would help a girl cheat on her boyfriend can't be that great of a guy.
Welcome to reality, slut.
I'm not even going to bother beating you up with my words. I'll leave that to Rashi.
Dump the boyfriend for great guy! Is this not obvious to everyone else?
wow you suck, what goes around comes around so dont feel like you were cheated when you get cheated on.
Haha. I like you, Anonymous2, although Anonymous1 pretty much said whaat I was thinking.
First of all, I don't understand what kind of a person would want to be with a person that has cheated on someone else. What makes them so sure they're not being cheated on? Because they're "the special one"? Bullshit. Quite frankly, if Person A cheats on Person B with Person C, Person A can no longer be trusted by either Person B or Person C.
Basically, if this new guy you're interested in is sooo amazing, then get rid of the old one. But if you're too immature to do that, you quite honestly are not fit to be in a relationship. Maybe you should grow up a little bit and try again?
Maybe I will add to this if I think of more. I'm tired.
Love,
Rashi
Please don't try to have your cake and eat it too.
Take your current boyfriend, or the new guy, but make a decision quickly and make sure you truly agree with the one you're taking.
Cheating is by no means some sinful barrier that has sent you sprawling into the realm of unescapable relationship failure in which you can never be trusted (I mean maybe it has, but I think people are jumping to conclusions.)
Just decide what you want, and go with it, but make sure to take other's feelings into account.
"Cheating is by no means some sinful barrier that has sent you sprawling into the realm of unescapable relationship failure in which you can never be trusted"
If she feels no remorse then yes, yes it has. Thing is, I'm normally one of the supportive people on tangst. But cheaters disgrace the rest of us who resist temptation.
A momentary lapse of judgement? Forgivable. Maybe. But I'd never date you.
A more than one time affair with feelings of intense guilt and doubt? Less forgivable, and only after a lot of talking through the reasons behind it. I probably wouldn't even keep you as a friend then.
Prolonged affair, bragging on tangst? Yeah, good job scum. Have fun using people, and never being able to really have a meaningful relationship. I feel sorry for you, honestly. Because a completely open, honest, monogamous relationship is one of the nicest things I've ever known.
Even if you do dump the boyfriend for the "great guy" your "relationship" will forever be tainted by the past baggage of your ruined relationship. And all that wonderful doubt of your capacity for fidelity (or lack thereof).
Best idea? Come clean, dump them both, and seriously re-evalute what you want from a relationship and what you're willing to put in. Because you obviously aren't getting it from either.
or maybe i was cheating because my boyfriend (who yes, everyone, i have broken up with now) is a total jerk.
i tried to break up with him BEFORE the cheating started but he literally would not let me. because HE didn't want to.
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