Increasingly, I feel as if I'm not good enough for the man I have.
Anonymous
08:15:57 PM
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I felt like that. Then he dumped me. I felt like crap afterwards. I've spent the months since doubting everything about myself, from superficial things (my hair, my laugh, the way my face looks, my absolute refusal to wear makeup) to core personality traits (being intensely introverted, my love of all things tech, my work ethic).
After months of self-examination, I know there's nothing wrong with me. There was something wrong with us. He wanted me to be more social, to open up more, but he couldn't tell me that until it was too late. And I couldn't tell that it bothered him, because we didn't spend enough time together, just us.
So if you think you aren't good enough, I suggest you talk to him about it. He'll probably reassure you that you're wonderful and there's nothing wrong with you at all, that you're wonderful as is. Or he could point out a few things that bother him that you could fix - maybe you're a tad too clingy for his preference. Either way, your relationship will be stronger for it. And then you won't go through the personal hell I threw myself into.
i felt like that too. i feel exactly like the previous anonymous.well, during the realationship. and he also dumped me.
there's nothing wrong with you. it's pretty much normal. don't worry.
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