should i give a guy a chance out of pity?
because thats exactly what i'm doing.
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05:21:45 PM
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I think it depends. I am leaning towards no, as I am very much against people leading others on.
On the other hand, you might just find that the pity turns into real affection, and you could become very happy.
I'm not really happy with the way I said that, maybe I'll say something again later if I find a better way to word it.
I went out with a guy for a multitude of bad reasons, mostly pity and wanting to get over a crush. it was bad.
my advice: don't do it.
You honestly think you're doing this guy a favor? That he wants you to date him out of pity? If it's not something you're comfortable with him knowing then that's a telltale sign.
Basically everybody wants to feel wanted and loved... and that sure isn't what you're doing here. This will hurt so much more if/when he finds out rather than you just having said no in the first place.
The worst way you can hurt a guy is to lead him on when you don't mean it. One of the most dangerous things you can do is be too nice!!
Basically, you're disgusting.
I'm not joking.
Would you want some guy to give you a chance out of pity?
unless you give him pity sex then no.
I did the same thing and it feels ten times worse later.
i could easily be anon1. i didn't realize it at the time, but that's Exactly what i was doing.
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