Wednesday, May 16, 2007

is it really possible to get over your first, real, serious crush??

I've dated other guys. even liked other guys. but whenever I see this guy when he comes back from college or I see him randomly on facebook...its like I never forgot about him in the first place.

why the hell is he so perfect?


Anonymous
11:51:00 PM

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

How long as it been since that first crush?

Anonymous said...

Amen.
It's really weird.

Anonymous said...

oh, my first serious crush = first guy i thought i was in love with. it's hard.

Anonymous said...

he's not actually /that/ perfect, but you idiolize him as such because he was your first, which is a huge deal in the history of your development. plus he's unattainable, so you've never had a chance to really find out for yourself just how imperfect he probably is.

Anonymous said...

You probably continue to have this problem because you're so used to crushing on him. I had the same problem for a while, but once I got a girlfriend, the problem just went away.

PChis said...

Only way to get over it is to be friends with them.

I mean, you don't get over it, but if you can turn that crush admiration into friendly admiration, you're golden.

Anonymous said...

i still sort of love my first kiss