I masturbate to get myself ready for the real thing.
I don't want him to know I'm a virgin.
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06:21:00 PM
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I masturbate to get myself ready for the real thing.
I don't want him to know I'm a virgin.
Anonymous
06:21:00 PM
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13 comments:
its worse for a guy to be a virgin than a girl.
As a guy, I can say that I would rather have the girl be a virgin. Don't worry about it.
i agree with anon2. if you're a virgin = no STDs and its more meaningful (i would assume, since it would be your first)
plus, masturbation and sex are quite different.
plus, masturbation is pretty much the only way you can achieve orgasm
not if the guy knows what hes doing
^even the most well-meaning and skilled guys can't make a girl orgasm whose body just doesn't want her to.
1)depending on how you are masturbating (like if you dont penetrate, or use something with a wider circumference than your finger), he might know anyways, when it hurts for you.
2) do you really want to lose it to someone who will judge for you being a virgin? i feel like you oughtta be able to tell him that.
3)"masturbation is pretty much the only way you can achieve orgasm"...WRONG! I'm sorry if thats the case for you, but the first orgasm I ever had was from hand sex with a guy. I also came the first time I had real sex (and every time after that). It is possible.
4)"not if the guy knows what hes doing"...also not true. reaching orgasm has a lot more to do with the girl than the guy. some girls have a really hard time reaching orgasm, probably becuase they arent comfortable with their body and dont know what to expect. a lot of guys think they are really skilled or something for giving a girl her first orgasm, but chances are shes just one of those for whom it comes more easily. no pun intended.
k done.
^^I seriously doubt that your first orgasm was from vaginal intercourse.
Very few women orgasm from vaginal sex. It just doesn't happen. It's much more likely to come from anal sex or oral sex. Just thought I'd mention that.
why would I lie about that? I orgasmed at least 15 or 20 times from hand sex before I even tried oral sex. And I think only about 1/3 of women have a lot of trouble orgasming from vaginal intercourse.
Women can orgasm from stimulation of the clitoris or the g spot, but the latter tend to be much stronger and last longer. Vaginal sex is what really stimulates the g spot since its on the anterior wall of the vagina. Basically all of my female friends have had sex, and only a couple of them have had difficult orgasming. I'd be interested to know your source of "Very few women orgasm from vaginal sex. It just doesn't happen"
I think its actually better if you let him know you're a virgin. That way he'll know what to coach you on, and how gentle to be with you. It's really really important that he make your first time comfortable, not frightening, and hopefully enjoyable. All of these things will be much easier for him if you tell him.
I really doubt he'll see it as a negative thing, and if he does, he's not worth having sex with. Really.
There is no medical documentation of a "g spot" actually existing, it is often suggested to be more a psychological thing. Of course, there are many women who swear by it, and those who say there is nothing to it...
Either way, women can definitely orgasm from vaginal sex. And a couple of anon8 is correct, the more comfortable a woman is with her body, the more likely she is to orgasm.
As opposed to us fellas who just wanna let it out.
are you kidding me? there is totally a g spot. Its a lump the size of a quarter. I can feel it. There is medical documentation for it too, jus t not everyone agrees with it.
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