Monday, March 26, 2007

every time my bf and I hang out, we spend the majority of the time being physically intimate. it's fun, but I wish sometimes that we could control ourselves long enough to have conversations, do other things, etc. looking back, it seems sort of hollow.

any suggestions?


Anonymous
08:57:00 PM

9 comments:

PChis said...

Do things in public...like long walks around lakes or along that path by meredith college or whatever.

Dinner's a good place for talking.

I mean, you can be physically intimate during these things, but I feel it's easier to not be when other people are around (but there's still privacy because I'd say people don't really eavesdrop on you).

Anonymous said...

go to an event, then talk about it afterwards over dinner

Anonymous said...

It's called going on a date, as opposed to hanging out...

go do something somewhere.

Anonymous said...

go to a museum!
they're fun, they give you lots of things to talk about, and best of all they keep you out of each other's pants long enough to have a conversation.

Anonymous said...

caution: if you've just been physically intimate with him for a long time and haven't had real conversations once you start having real conversations you might find out you didn't like him as much as you thought you did.

op said...

anon four-- we USED to have conversations

thewordofrashi said...

Have you considered talking to him about this?

Before he lunges at you, I mean.

Anonymous said...

chastity belt

anon4 said...

yea well people change. it just depends how long you guys havent really talked. and even when have healthy talkable relationships they realize they can't stand each other and break it off.

but best of luck to you.