every time my bf and I hang out, we spend the majority of the time being physically intimate. it's fun, but I wish sometimes that we could control ourselves long enough to have conversations, do other things, etc. looking back, it seems sort of hollow.
any suggestions?
Anonymous
08:57:00 PM
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Do things in public...like long walks around lakes or along that path by meredith college or whatever.
Dinner's a good place for talking.
I mean, you can be physically intimate during these things, but I feel it's easier to not be when other people are around (but there's still privacy because I'd say people don't really eavesdrop on you).
go to an event, then talk about it afterwards over dinner
It's called going on a date, as opposed to hanging out...
go do something somewhere.
go to a museum!
they're fun, they give you lots of things to talk about, and best of all they keep you out of each other's pants long enough to have a conversation.
caution: if you've just been physically intimate with him for a long time and haven't had real conversations once you start having real conversations you might find out you didn't like him as much as you thought you did.
anon four-- we USED to have conversations
Have you considered talking to him about this?
Before he lunges at you, I mean.
chastity belt
yea well people change. it just depends how long you guys havent really talked. and even when have healthy talkable relationships they realize they can't stand each other and break it off.
but best of luck to you.
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