he calls me every night. and most nights, i don't answer. and then the next night i make up an excuse about why i couldn't talk to him the night before. and i feel really bad about it. but the truth is, his clinginess is making me not want to talk to him. i don't know how to tell him this without sounding mean. i don't know if i even like him at all anymore. i wish it was like it was in the beginning.
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09:34:13 PM
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It's scary how others sometimes say exactly what you want to say.
Your words were my exact thoughts. I ended up breaking it off with him. Mostly because I wasn't even sure in the first place if I should have started a relationship, and partly because I just forgot and found it meaningless. It pains me to admit that until the end I made up excuses to break it off with him. But I did eventually tell him the truth. He never put it against me or our friendship. But I'm happy how it turned out because he found someone who loves the way he treats her, and how he calls every night.
I say some people are either not phone people, or maybe you just did not like him enough in the first place to truly have that feeling of always wanting him near. If you liked him enough, you wouldn't have to make excuses and always find time to talk to him. So maybe it is better to break it off or tell it to him straight.
Agreed, girls are stupid. Just tell him, the short hurt he'll get from that is much better from the slow agony you cause every day.
i wish the person who i wish was saying this would just say that to their boyfriend.
I had something like this and it slowly drove me to hate the guy, since I couldn't find a way to tell him he was paying too much attention to me. If you find a good way tell the guy you are talking about you will have to let me know.
don't listen to the morons saying you're dumb for feeling this way. I've actually gone through this before, so I know what you're talking about. Twice actually. Unfortunatly, despite their obvious lack of sensitivity, they are correct in that you should break it off as soon as possible. In the future, do as I do and stay away from clingy guys -or at least discourage them significantly.
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