I have a group of very good friends and I usually love hanging out with them, but recently, I feel like they just ignore me. I feel like the little, quiet girl who follows them around, but I am really not like that.
What is wrong with me? augh.
Anonymous
11:58:00 PM
4 comments:
I know how you feel. Try speaking out more. Don't always expect them to constantly try to include you. Give it a little time. If that doesn't work, you might want to think about if they are in fact good friends. Try hanging out with other friends and see if you still feel ignored.
If this were me, I would just tell them how I felt candidly. I don't know if that would be a good plan or a bad plan...
but if it's not intentional, then if you tell them they should try to include you more.
mention it to one or two of the people in the group, not when everyone is together.
divide and conquer. groups of guys alone work differently than groups of girls alone, with guys just pick on the next lowest member but kinda jokingly till you move up and then use the lowest member as an ally to take out the next until your at the top then pick a random outside enemy and unite the group against them. like the Mongols united.
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