We have been best friends for 3 years. We call each other a lot. We hang out with just each other at least twice a week. We hook up a lot. We like and trust each other more than anyone else we know. We don't date though, and I don't really understand why. Like, we've talked about it some and I know he just considers our friendship more important than anything else, but I still don't quite understand it. What's his deal?
Anonymous
10:34:08 PM
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I have one of these realtionships with a girl so I compeltely understand where your guy is coming from. Sometimes you can get along really well with girl and want to spend time with her, but at the same time not be at all romantically interested in her. It's not that you're boring or ugly or anything, it's just that (at least in my case) there are parts of your personalities that clash that are fine for friendship but would definitely get in the way of a long term relationship. Just be content with the way things are and don't try and push him into something he's uncomfortable with.
Well, either that or he's just using you for the "hooking up" while avoiding any real commitment" Both scenarios are looking equally probable at this point.
The guy I'm in a relationship is actually best friends with another girl, who I'm really close to, too. They tried "dating", and it fell apart in under a week. But as far as the friendship goes, they're set forever.
I guess it's just how the cookie crumbles, my friend. Condolences are extended to you.
*in a relationship WITH
yea...i mean just b/c its a member of the opposite sex doesnt mean it has to be like that. just treat it as if you guys were the same.
those kinds of friendships are so much fun.
They can get wierd though, especially with one of those people who you can't tell the gender of. I almost went a whole year oblivious...
when you say hook up what exactly do you mean?
i was going to ask you the same thing... what kind of "hook up" are we talking about here? if it's the kind of hook-up that i think you're talking about, then this rabbit hole may go deeper than you think...
We haven't had real sex yet, but we've gotten close. I don't know if we will or not.
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