Tuesday, March 14, 2006

i need some answers, and Tangst is probably the best place to get them. so here are my questions:
1. how can i tell if a boy likes me?
2. if he does, what should i do to let him know i like him too?
3. most importantly, how do i not scare him off?

thanks.


Anonymous
05:49:46 PM

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Do you talk to him? If you leave, does he follow you?

Anonymous said...

Depends on your personality. For me, being straight and to the point is good, but it only really works for people with a healthy dose of self-confidence (or at least the appearance of it).

Anonymous said...

Cater to your relationship with him. It all depends on how you interact with him.

All I can say is just don't ignore him. That's the worst message you can give a guy.

thewordofrashi said...

1. He probably likes you if when you talk to him he struggles to make eye contact, is often awkward around you, laughs at jokes that aren't funny, etc. Guys are pretty straightforward. You should be able to tell.

2. Depends on the guy. Touching is good - and by that I mean friendly contact - flirting - not sex. Basically, make an attempt to be around him more, and if all else fails, just be direct. It makes it easier on us. I promise.

3. How to not scare him off? Just wait for the right time. Don't just say something crazy out of the blue, or he'll probably feel confused. And when we get confused, we don't always think properly.

And I agree with the person above. DO NOT JUST IGNORE US! Playing hard to get or the ignoring game just tells us that you are not interested either at all or in a real relationship.

Anonymous said...

Its interesting to see what the girls say about how to figure guys out. Espescially the If you leave does he follow?