Wednesday, March 22, 2006

i gave up on you today, after liking you for 3 years. i decided it wasn't worth it anymore.


Anonymous
04:01:26 PM

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

did you ever tell them that you liked them?

Anonymous said...

i did this recently (only it was after one year not three). i'm so much happier now.

Dr.A said...

Wow this is so sad to me. The end of an era. Can you just decide to stop liking someone or was it more of a purposefully trying to get away from liking them by avoiding them sort of thing?

I've done this sort of thing before, but not after so long of a time, and normally something catalyzed it. Like an actual relationship with them at the end of years of a crush, or a crazy conversation like frankie that totally turns everyone's world upside-down and then actually doesn't change anything except taking out the possibility that you would ever have something happen.

Anonymous said...

haha, good luck, i tried giving up a crush that lasted around 3 years (maybe more), yea, it definately didn't work, i think i ended up even liking the girl more after trying to get over her...

my advice is find another person and fixate on them a while, that was the plan i always told myself that i'd do... but then when i couldn't find a person i wanted to fixate on, it made me like my crush even more

Anonymous said...

I think for lots of people, your subconscious always nees someone to project on all the time. Even if you'd never act on your impulse in a million years, just the fact that you have a crush is reassuring and affirming on some level. If you're really sick of this person you may be forced to find another object of your desires rather than just going cold turkey.

Anonymous said...

Good for you OP!

Anonymous said...

i had a crush of almost two years, stopped liking him... then he emailed me. love the love life

Anonymous said...

Well, good luck with that. Whenever I have a crush I'm not actually able to choose when it goes away. I can try, but it never works. They usually last for a fairly long time, I guess, but the worst was when I had a crush on someone and could already tell that it wouldn't last long. But no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't get rid of it. I think it made it worse.

Sorry, longish thing about my own crushes and ignoring yours. Basically my point was that I hope you get over them, if it's possible.