"This makes me feel terrible. When I got in the relationship everything was fantastic, and just seemed to flow right. Now everything looks like it's flowing good on the outside, and for the most part I guess it does. But when I'm not around this significant other, sometimes I feel really.. I don't think trapped is the right word.. but sometimes almost repulsed by this other person. When I'm actually around said person everything is sun and peaches, but when I look at pictures or just think about it... my vanity gets the better of me and I can't help wishing that I was still with my fabulously attractive ex-significant other. This is unfair to the other half of this relationship, and I'm just being a selfish fuck. But it's hard to change how I feel about it now."
The person who posted this deserves to be harassed on tangst.
Why disable the comments?
I don't actually know who posted it, but I must say that that is so low.
Anonymous
04:45:41 PM
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*sigh*
yes. this was an incredibly insensitive thing to do, op of the original comment. why didn't you try talking about the actual problem instead of tangsting about it?
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I sort of enjoy that it was brought back.
I don't think anyone deserves to be harassed on Tangst. I mean, yes it's terrible, and there have been worse things posted, but deserving to be harassed is a bit extreme.
no, trust me. it is well deserved.
sigh, what happened to anonymity?
nobody's anonymity has been breached yet.. just a bunch of references to a yet unnamed subject..
i don't understand why it's that bad, maybe if i knew the actual situation like apparently everyone else does... but all i can see is some unspoken feeling, i mean, don't we all feel like that sometimes? sure i wish that the guys that liked me were hotter sometimes.
i just don't think anyone deserves to be harassed... if they feel bad about feeling that way then clearly it's a step in the right direction
Hey, yeah, I posted this. If you're gonna call me an ass, please do to my face. What I did was not okay by any means, I finally understand that on an emotional and mental level; however, I believe that it has been blown out of proportion, and unless I have been lied to, so does the person that this was originally aimed at. It was more an expression of unhappiness and confusion than anything else. But yeah, go ahead and harass me. In real life, if you are so inclined.
"When I'm actually around said person everything is sun and peaches, but when I look at pictures or just think about it... my vanity gets the better of me and I can't help wishing that I was still with my fabulously attractive ex-significant other. This is unfair to the other half of this relationship, and I'm just being a selfish fuck. But it's hard to change how I feel about it now."
I have no idea who posted this, but I sympathize with the original poster. I been feeling like this a lot lately.
hm... i just had a reversal of opinion.
what we're doing right now, using tangst to express displeasure, is what the person to whom this post is directed s so much about it -- not being direct.
tangst can't take the place of real-life interaction -- we aren't that pathetic, guys.
-second anonymous/rt
Obviously it was the wrong thing to do. Why beat a dead horse?
Maybe the person doesn't deserve to be harassed on tangst. I agree. My words originally were very blunt and cold, and I am sorry about that. I apologize to the one I said should be harassed. If he/she reads this, please accept my anonymous apology. We all say things out of unhappiness. However, why post something so hurtful? What if your significant other read your post? Seeing as how I don't even know who the original poster is, I am going to let it be. Do what you want. But please be careful with your significant other's feelings.
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