Sunday, April 06, 2008

Can I please discuss anal sex with someone? I'm dying for someone to talk about it with.

07:28:00 PM


Anonymous said...

Generally speaking, it hurts. Go slow, stop if the receiving party is in too much pain. Always use condoms, not just for STD prevention but to keep the invader from getting a urinary tract infection. Use tons and tons of water-based lube-- spit WILL NOT CUT IT. It's the most dangerous type of sex out there, but if you're smart about it you can do it safely.

Anonymous said...

Also, it's very important that you warm her up. Don't just go sticking your junk in her hole. Start with a well lubricated finger and just move it up from there.

tintedfragipan said...

lubrication is everything.

Start with a well lubed finger or a vibrating butt plug that tapers to a small tip. Using something that vibrates or wiggles (like your finger) will help because it loosens up the sphincter.

things can tear really easily so don't be too rough and be smart about what you stick up there. give your hole some time to rest afterwards

Anonymous said...

My favorite place for my boyfriend to cum is in my ass and we never use lube because it's just a quick in and out, it doesn't hurt, but I'm wondering if we should start. I'm thinking yeah.

Anonymous said...

^yeah, even if it doesn't hurt much it'll hurt a lot less if you guys use some lube. The tissue in there is pretty fragile, even if it doesn't always feel that way, and without lube you can really tear something. He'll probably benefit from it, too.

Dr. A said...

Don't do it with tinted -- my advice.