Thursday, August 07, 2008

I'm 15, single, and a virgin.

I really want to have sex. I really want to know what it feels like. but I don't have a boyfriend right now and I don't just wanna go out and sleep with some random guy I hardly know.

what to do..what to do...

07:04:00 PM


Anonymous said...


and wait a while

Anonymous said...

Don't just fuck a stranger. Apart from the obvious health risks, it will not feel nearly as good with a random fuckbuddy as it will with somebody you know, trust, and with whom you are able to experiment without feeling embarassed.

Until then, yeah, buy yourself a vibrator! It's too bad that 15-year-olds aren't allowed in most sex shops. If you have an older friend who wouldn't be totally squicked by it, get them to go buy you a nice vibrator and pay them back. Heck, I'd buy you a nice vibrator if I knew who you were.

Anonymous said...

yea 15 is too young wait a while find someone you like cause if you dont your first time will not be good it will hurt.

Anonymous said...

The first time sucks no matter how long you wait. It sucks for the guy, too.

Basically, it takes a few times before it's good for either the guy or the girl.

PChis said...

My first time was absolutely wonderful. I think it's not uncommon to have a bad first experience, but I think the idea that it has to be bad the first time is a disgusting rumor.

I know a lot of people at college who are virgins, so at fifteen you are definitely smack dab in "normal" being a virgin.

I would say wait until you have had a boyfriend for a while. I would also say it shouldn't be something you REALLY have to consider. It should seem right to you.

Anonymous said...

I agree 100% with PChis. 15 is NOT old to be a virgin. And my first time was amazing. I don't think you have to wait for someone you know you are in love with, but please wait for someone you truly care about and most importantly TRUST.
I slept with someone I didn't know well who mislead me about being tested/safe in the past. I ended up getting high risk HPV(despite using a condom). I had to go through a painful procedure that left me bleeding for 5 days. The procedure (a cervical biopsy)determined that I am not high risk for cervical cancer, but I will have to monitor it closely for the next few years. I am probably contagious for the rest of my life.

There is no HPV test for males. I got the HPV vaccine. It only protects against 4 of the 15 high risk strands. I thought I was well educated about STDs and that I was being very safe but ANYONE who has ever had sex with a non-virgin is at risk for HPV.

So PLEASE PLEASE be careful. IT was not at all worth it when I had to tell my mom that I used to sleep around. Or when I told my current boyfriend that he's at a slightly higher risk for cancer because of my past mistakes.

Believe me, I never thought I would get an STD.