Saturday, August 23, 2008

I love my boyfriend. But he doesn't go to my college, and tonight I hung out with another guy. It wasn't a date and I would never cheat on him, but I feel like it would make him upset if he knew, and I'm afraid to tell him.

GUILT.
/whatdoido??


Anonymous
12:21:00 AM
8/23/2008

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

Why are you worried? What all did you do? Why wouldn't he be happy to know you're making friends?

Anonymous said...

Make sure the other guy knows about your boyfriend and tell your boyfriend that you've met a new friend. As long as you keep being honest with everyone you've got no reason to be guilty.

Anonymous said...

Just tell him. He'll appreciate it, I promise.

Anonymous said...

ye just tell him if your honest with him he will not suspect you of doing something you did not do, my girlfriend is at another college and I always worry about her, if she just told me stuff like that I would not near as much.

Anonymous said...

Tell him nothing, except that you are making friends. If you told him he'd just feel worried or anxious and it's not really important for him to know.

Dr. A said...

You should be honest with the people you love. On the other hand it might make your life suck so you might want to take that into consideration.

Anonymous said...

if its really nothing then dont tell him or tell him thats its nothing tell him the other guy is ugly or undatable for some reason then he wont worry and you will be honest

Anonymous said...

you should pick and choose what you say.

don't risk something that doesn't need to be said.

Anonymous said...

If you're this insecure about your relationship then things are going to be hard no matter what you do.

Anonymous said...

Honesty is usually good, as long as you make it clear that you're not dating the other guy.

Anonymous said...

hmm I wonder if this is my girlfriend , probably not.