okay so I'm definently straight. I know that for sure, but I find myself attracted to a close friend of mine for some reason.
she's really athletic and she's a low maintence, tomboy type girl. she never wears makeup but she's pretty without it because she has good skin and idk what else to say. I think she's hot and actually WANT her sometimes. like I actually want to kiss her and be close to her and like makeout with her. all the lesbians/bisexual girls and alot of guys think she's hot, but she's straight(atleast that's what she says). it's just so weird because i'm usually never attracted to girls, but god it's insane how I want her sometimes.
Anonymous
04:59:00 PM
9/06/2008
6 comments:
hawt.
I completely know what you mean.
i know someone who is dating someone of their gender and claims to be straight. its not uncommon.
get it on, girl.
Hey, it happens. If you think of orientation as a continuum with "totally straight" and "totally gay" on either end, most of us fall somewhere in between.
If you're definitely straight, and you know that for sure, resist the urge to "experiment" with homosexuality unless you like an unnecessarily complicated and drama-ridden life. You will have to explain it all to your future husband (and risk losing him). Your call. Is it worth it to you?
It's not unusual to have these kinds of feelings, especially in one's youth. They pass. It is more likely that 20 years from now, you'd be relieved, not regretful, if you don't act on it.
If not, and if you're still interested in girls 20 years from now, then you can try "experimenting." There's still plenty of time. Why not keep things simple now. Experiencing fleeting lust is seldom a good reason to act. Think through the consequences you'll have to live with and carry with you. What do you want out of life?
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