Wednesday, August 06, 2008

How do I trust my boyfriend? He's done nothing to make me feel like I can't trust him, but he's just so fricken friendly that girls think he's flirting. How do I stop this stupid insecurity? Please help!


Anonymous
03:04:00 PM
8/06/2008

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

"How do I trust my boyfriend?"

>> If you don't trust him, why is he your boyfriend?

"He's done nothing to make me feel like I can't trust him"

>> So what's the problem?

"...but he's just so fricken friendly that girls think he's flirting."

>> So what? They'll get frustrated when he doesn't reflect their advances.

"How do I stop this stupid insecurity?"

>> Get over yourself. You've got a good guy. You're not being fair to him or yourself.

>> A lot of younger guys don't know how to treat girls nicely, so when a guy comes along that does (gasp) actually treat girls with respect, they don't know how to respond properly.

>> You've got a good catch. Stop worrying and don't chase him off. I'm sure he's hoping you aren't one of those girls who is immature enough to consider general courtesy as a sign of romantic interest.