Thursday, November 01, 2007

I love my boyfriend, really. But he's unhappy so often (though mostly for valid reasons) that he really depresses me.


-Anonymous
3:36:00 PM

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

If I weren't so sure I was unloved I'd swear this was about me.

Anonymous said...

Dear Anon1,
There are some people who love you.
And I am one of them.
I hope you are unlonely soon.

Anonymous said...

Maybe try to become involved more with his problems. Talk to him about it. Initiate discussion. Try to help him out. Chances are that he will respond and become happier and love you more because you're careing about him and actually doing something.

Anonymous said...

...I know that I can't ever feel exactly what you're feeling, but I think that I can relate. In my freshman year of high school, I got to know a guy really well. We became extremely close friends (and liked each other romantically for a while, though nothing came out of it) and he would tell me a lot of stuff. He was seriously depressed for a while, and though I think that he's mostly over it by now, it was extremely difficult to deal with him when I cared so much about someone who hated himself really strongly sometimes.

The only advice that I can give is really general and vague. Show him that you care (even though I'm sure you already do).