hey if im un-circumcised should i tell my girlfriend before we have sex?


Anonymous
9/22/2008
11:55:00 PM

I've never been completely honest with anyone in my entire life. I can't think of a single person I've talked to and not lied to at least once.


Anonymous
08:26:00 PM

all I want to do is touch you, kiss you, hold your hand, but we're always so shy around each other. I hope we can get over this.


Anonymous
09:56:00 AM

Lately, I've been having a really hard time and wanting to get back into some old habits. So in attempt to purge thoughts from my system I'm going to do some self therapy and identify issues (I know it's being posted on here...but on here I kinda feel like I'm talking to someone...lame, I know).

Reasons I used to cut/feelings that make me want to again: Self punishment, lonliness, helplessness, hopelessness, attempt to escape emotional distress

Reasons I stopped/Reasons I won't (can't) start again:
1) Theatre- 5 shows per year...I'm always in my underwear around people...they'd notice
2) Fear of ruining my parents' perfect image of me
3) Trying to stay strong and be there for other friends...I'm the group therapist.
4)Vanity..don't want scars
5)Summer's coming...and I don't wanna have to hide it
6)If I start again...it'll be 300 times harder to stop.

Reasons not to outweigh reasons that I want to, right? Let's just hope I can maintain this self control.


Anonymous
08:56:00 PM

Honesty is rarely the best policy.


Anonymous
10:32:00 PM

You're still the best I ever had. I wish you felt the same.


Anonymous
04:45:00 PM

I am sometimes dishonest, and almost never brutally honest.

But I will be now:
I think you were incredibly selfish tonight.
You thrive on drama, and you know it. You seek it out and it feeds you.
You're smarter than this, and that is why I respect you more than other people.
Except on nights like this.


Anonymous
09:52:56 PM

I really just want someone I can cuddle with.
That is the entire bases behind my desire for a relationship.


Anonymous
10:24:38 PM

I have no idea what the appropriate response is when you ask a girl out and she says no based on the fact she's emotionally damaged and unstable.

She's one of the most stable, steady, level-headed people I know.

Is she lying? Or is she better than most at hiding her problems?


Anonymous
10:14:19 PM

Life is like a box of chocolates? That's bullshit!
Sometimes one good thing blows your way
another moment and its gone
What the hell happened to telling the truth...
What the hell made us all lose trust...
What the hell forced us to grow up so fast?
Only thing i remember of youth
the feeling of love
honest love
between all of us.
NOW? now we're backstabbing slutaprostabitchahoes waiting to take another swing
aching to see the blood drip
and for the prey to die slow and terribly
hoping it will give an example of some kind of emotion
Feeling
Something we lost when we brought on the dope
when we started sniffing
when we started drinking our suffereing away
Well... let's face it... we've all changed... for the better... for the worse.
All i know that i have changed for good
for always
forever
SO GET OVER IT!


Anonymous
07:07:55 PM

i think the worst part of everything is waiting.

really, is it that hard to pick up your phone and call someone? no.

is it really that hard to say what's on your mind? maybe, but it's not like it's anything dire--just SAY it, goddammit, why do we all play such foolish games of cat-and-mouse?


why can't people bloody say what they're feeling?


Anonymous
11:27:41 PM

Everyone is always bitching to me about their problems. They always tell me that I give such great advice for their burgeoning love lives, etc. (which is ironic considering the extent of mine, but whatever)

Then I end up telling people. Then people get mad at me.

Secrets, secrets are no fun unless you share with everyone.

These are dumb high school romance secrets. Most of what I say isn't even current anymore. Why the hell does it matter to these people?

Urgh. I realize the way I word this here, I look like the bad guy. And maybe I am. But sometimes I just want to strangle these people when they make mountains out of molehills.


Anonymous
07:31:45 PM

I don't trust anyone.


Anonymous
10:35:40 PM

She seems so wonderful. But am I ready? She is also brutally honest, it might be while I am drawn to her. Is this just because I needed some honesty? and could I live with it?

Is flirting bad?


Anonymous
11:38:55 PM

I'm kind of embarassed I've been so obvious on here.

Being a guy and liking guys is not cool. It leads to negative stereotypes about weakness and femininity that I find despicable. I hope people don't feel that way about me. What if they think I'm a Daniel W? Ugh...

I guess most of the time I don't care what other people think, but my secret is: sometimes I do.