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Wednesday, July 11, 2007
i feel completely sexually inadequate.
Anonymous 06:54:00 AM
8 comments:
Anonymous
said...
you have plenty of time. ...just dont become a 40-year-old virgin.
no fears. there are plenty of drugs these days to ease that. Viagra and Enzyte ring bells. although i guess which one you need depends on the root of your "inadequacy"
Viagra doesn't help women much, and if I were a virgin, why would I feel sexually inadequate? I wouldn't have any idea how good I was, and therefore no reason to feel inadequate yet. Trust me, I know how good I'm not.
Enzyte doesn't help women much either, seeing as it's a male enhancement drug...
I just assumed that you were a guy, seeing as it's usually the men who feel sexually inadequate, what with penis size, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and that sort of thing.
Either way, I'm sure you'll get better. AND, you shouldn't really feel inadequate anyway if you're having sex with the right person. They should make you feel good about yourself, accept your (relative) inexperience, etc.
agreed, and if you two build up to it (after months of kissing + playing around + gradually building up the sexual playfulness) you'll know what "turns him on" and how to touch him in the right places. as opposed to jumping in and having no idea how to react to some total stranger.
I just wish I could make her have an orgasm. I always feel really shitty when I can't, even though it's not entirely my fault. I suppose some women just have a harder time.
8 comments:
you have plenty of time.
...just dont become a 40-year-old virgin.
no fears. there are plenty of drugs these days to ease that. Viagra and Enzyte ring bells. although i guess which one you need depends on the root of your "inadequacy"
Viagra doesn't help women much, and if I were a virgin, why would I feel sexually inadequate? I wouldn't have any idea how good I was, and therefore no reason to feel inadequate yet. Trust me, I know how good I'm not.
Enzyte doesn't help women much either, seeing as it's a male enhancement drug...
I just assumed that you were a guy, seeing as it's usually the men who feel sexually inadequate, what with penis size, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and that sort of thing.
Either way, I'm sure you'll get better. AND, you shouldn't really feel inadequate anyway if you're having sex with the right person. They should make you feel good about yourself, accept your (relative) inexperience, etc.
agreed, and if you two build up to it (after months of kissing + playing around + gradually building up the sexual playfulness) you'll know what "turns him on" and how to touch him in the right places. as opposed to jumping in and having no idea how to react to some total stranger.
You probably are.
I just like how the tags for this tangst line up
"I suck, Sex"
A heartfelt, short letter to a friend who has yet to be met.
But in all sincerety, don't worry about it, its truly amazing how overly romanticized some aspects of teenage life
are.
I just wish I could make her have an orgasm. I always feel really shitty when I can't, even though it's not entirely my fault. I suppose some women just have a harder time.
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