Monday, September 21, 2009

I don't know how to initiate kisses.


Anonymous
04:03:00 AM
9/18/2009

19 comments:

Anonymous said...

Insert your lips into the face of the desired kiss recipient. Proceed to smooch.

Anonymous said...

this is not a problem if youre a girl. thats not your job anyway.

if you are a boy, it is a problem.

Anonymous said...

^It's more of a problem if you're a girl. What if you really want a kiss, but society has told you all your life that you have to wait until a boy decides to kiss you? Why shouldn't we be able to initiate kisses with boys if we want to? It ain't a girl's fault if her sweetie is shy!

anon 2 said...

eh. i kind of disagree with that. it doesnt matter how shy he is, if he wants you bad enough, he will be bold enough to imitate a kiss. i believe the man is the leader in any relationship because men are designed to be leaders in relationships

Anonymous said...

I don't think relationships or people are that simple. Men are traditionally and (probably) more often the leaders in relationships but there are so many different dynamics. "Designed" doesn't mean shit.

anon 2 said...

well then we'll agree to disagree, because it is truly my belief that God designed humanity in a certain way: the husband leads the wife.

Anonymous said...

shut up a2 this is 2009 not 1890 or you're a troll
I initiate kisses with boys all the time and they love it.

Anonymous said...

Oh man, I was totally agreeing with you but then you had to say some stupid shit like "I initiate kisses with boys all the time and they love it." How presumptuous can you be?

Anonymous said...

^they tell me they like it. I wouldn't keep doing it if they didn't give me positive feedback about it. How the fuck could you take that comment as being presumptuous if I'm speaking from experience? Goddamn.

Anonymous said...

i would kind of take it as presumptuous too. yeah, sure do it once in a while, but let him do it some too!

Anonymous said...

I'm not feminist- nor anything close to it- but the idea of men being 'designed' to lead me pisses me off. In most stable relationships, men and women work together. If you're a girl or a guy and there is someone you really want to kiss and they seem to want to kiss you, then go for it.

Anonymous said...

The idea of God "designing" humanity in general pisses me off, too. But that particular debate is unrelated to the topic at hand.

Anonymous said...

If God did design men and women, I have a bone to pick with Him about menstruation! Surely there must be an easier way to ensure fertility? Why, God, why?

anon 2 said...

i believe my point was misinterpreted.

if a guy is pursuing you, and yall are not officially together yet, i believe he should literally pursue you. after you are together, yes go for it. initiate the kiss, as long as you let him do it to, you do work together to maintain a relationship. i definitely agree with you.

and as for you, after eve ate the forbidden fruit from the tree, God cursed the serpent and cursed the ground because of the man. "To the woman he said, 'I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with pain you will give birth to children.'" Gen 3:16a

and going back to the designing us in a certain way, later on in that same verse it says, "Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you." Gen 3:16b which does not mean that he will boss you around and treat you like a slave. the word rule here simply means lead.

dang i could go on...

Anonymous said...

And then god said 'the leading of the woman will only be in your head because the woman will literally have you by the balls and you will follow her instead'. :D

Anonymous said...

also, "feminist" according to the oxford english dictionary, means "one who advocates for women's rights on the grounds of political, social and economic equality to men." that shouldn't be a bad thing.

Anonymous said...

Feminist really was a poor choice of word by whoever came up with it.

Anonymous said...

So, God decided to give me painful monthly crotchbleeds because some bitch I don't know listened to a talking snake and ate an apple a million years ago? Jesus, I am so glad I gave up on that Christianity bullshit.

Dr. A said...

All I know is, if you expect some people to lead all the time, you're gonna be disappointed.

See also: Congress.