Monday, July 06, 2009

I love my boyfriend, more than anything. But I think I'm in denial about also liking my old best friend more than I should.

Hearts can't belong to two people...
At least, they shouldn't be allowed to.

Even writing this makes me feel ill.


Anonymous
07:34:00 PM
7/05/2009

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

It's okay to get crushes so long as that's all they are. Everyone gets them once in a while, even in a relationship. You just can't let them be stronger than the feelings you have for your significant other.

Anonymous said...

Really? I feel like if you are in love with someone then you don't really get crushes. You don't need them anymore, and you stop paying attention to people romantically when you are truly into who you're with.

Anonymous said...

That's just not true. Be with somebody long enough and tiny temptations will pop up. That's inevitable. But the word crush denotes something insignificant, nothing that will distract you from your actual relationship. That said, I think anon1 is wrong in this particular case. If the feelings are strong enough that you have to worry then something is up.

Anonymous said...

Hearts, in fact, CAN belong to two people. It's just common for boys not to be so accepting when they find out about the other, that's why cheating is "bad" but it's really not :/

Anonymous said...

What? Seriously? Any girl would be just as upset about finding out about the other girlfriend, and cheating is not acceptable.

Anonymous said...

Why? Why is cheating not acceptable? I mean, obvious breach of trust, yeah, but that's why standards should be set where seeing other people is okay. Humans have urges. Name three other types of animals that have one mate for the rest of their lives or have "relationships". Dating is garbage, fucking is win.

Anonymous said...

Beavers, otters and jackals.

Anonymous said...

penguins, swans

Anonymous said...

A4, I hope I never, ever, ever meet you.

Anonymous said...

A9, you probably do hah.

A4 said...

By "do" I meant "have"

Anonymous said...

Cheating is never okay. Period. Ive been cheated on and I cheated. It ruins relationships.