Saturday, January 12, 2008

I can never get my self to cry at funerals, or feel any sort of a emotion.

is there something wrong with me?

Anonymous
02:17:00 PM

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

unless I am activly concentrating on forcing myself to cry - and even then it is only an urge - I don't feel anything either

Anonymous said...

Crying is stupid.

Anonymous said...

why would you force yourself to cry? Do what you feel. Why would you try to make an act? Just remember that person and who they were and that's all that matters. Stop worrying about yourself image at a funeral...its not all about you.

Anonymous said...

no, it's not unusual... sometimes stuff is just so overwhelming, it almost numbs me or something... i dunno. But, I'll cry on the spur of the moment. If I know something is going to be sad or moving in advance (you knew you were going to a funeral before you went), I can't cry even when I want to. But, when I'mn not expecting something to be emotionally intense, then I cry.

Anonymous said...

well then I just misunderstood your post. i wasn't trying to be an ass...you just sounded like an ass. dont feel guilty for not crying. and its not disrespectful. if people dont understand that different people express their emotions in different ways then there's something wrong with them. dont worry :)

Anonymous said...

I agree with you :) thanks.

Anonymous said...

Your grammar is what's wrong with you.

my self
a emotion

Anonymous said...

I can somewhat understand - I often worry that I'm not feeling enough, too.

Anonymous said...

I only cry at awkward and inappropriate times. Like watching a movie on an airplane. Or going for a college interview.