There are guys I don't know, just boys I've seen and in my head I see them as special. They have strange twists, small parts of them I want to know and get to understand. I don't love them, I just want to be close to them. Is that wrong when I'm in a relationship?


Anonymous
06:58:00 AM
12/09/2010

A rumor is out that my best friend's boyfriend cheated on her with me. From what I understand 3 people claimed they saw us hooking-up at a bar together (we went w/ a group of people, not just the two of us alone). Albeit we did have our arms around each other and I know that was inappropriate, even we meant innocently; so I see how in a dark bar that could of been misinterpreted. I just feel horrible because because I don't know if any of us will ever be friends again.

Guess I just want some advice...


Anonymous
03:02:00 AM
1/26/2010

I think... I think my boyfriend just peed on my bathroom floor. Like a lot. What the hell?!


Anonymous
11:08:00 PM
11/09/2009

I only allow myself to go for the guys who will screw me over in the end. It hurts.


Anonymous
01:20:00 AM
9/26/2009

He will take the stage and I will feel the fumes of lust and fury well up behind my cheeks and I will watch him and want him and hate him.

I will never, ever find a boy that likes me back. This is it, I am throwing in the towel.


Anonymous
04:34:00 PM
7/12/2009

I love my boyfriend, more than anything. But I think I'm in denial about also liking my old best friend more than I should.

Hearts can't belong to two people...
At least, they shouldn't be allowed to.

Even writing this makes me feel ill.


Anonymous
07:34:00 PM
7/05/2009

I am 18 years old and am going to start my second year of college in two months and I still think it's fun and exciting to drive by boys' houses to see if they are home/outside.


Anonymous
08:50:00 PM
6/20/2009

Tonight was the last time I will ever see him. He's moving away for good and I loved him more than anything else in the world when we were together. Driving home from his house I really didn't expect any tears to come or for them to come as hard and strong as they did. I didn't expect to have to pull over because I was so beside myself in anguish that the first boyfriend I ever had was leaving FOREVER and no matter how much I want him to stay I can't change a goddamn thing about it. We broke up over a year ago but this kid taught me how to love and now he's GONE. FML


Anonymous
12:05:00 AM
6/17/2009

What do guys look for in "good sex"?


Anonymous
08:25:00 AM
6/12/2009

This summer is very difficult for me. First of all, it sucks pretty badly living at home again after being independent for a year, an issue that many of you can probably relate to. Secondly, my boyfriend lives in the town I went to college in, only 2 hours away but still difficult to see each other what with clashing work schedules and all. I miss him. Thirdly, I've spent the last 3 summers of my 4 years in NC with who is now my ex boyfriend, so it's just kind of throwing me off. I don't remember what I did during summers before him. There's so much time to fill. My mom is pushing me to get back together with him, because she likes him a lot. So this is making me angry, on top of that, I guess my mom isn't used to not mothering someone so she turned to MY dog to baby this year. So I come back home to her telling ME how to treat MY DOG. Explaining my feelings doesn't work with her either. Nothing works. Everything is irritating me and as much as I'm trying to have a positive attitude, the people around me just keep rubbing me the wrong way and pushing me until I feel like erupting in anger and harsh words. Just the pile up of things. Grr. Thank you for letting me vent.


Anonymous
11:57:00 PM
6/08/2009

Here's something frustrating:

My whole life, I've been that brooding, artsy poet girl. I write sweet, delicate poetry for my boyfriend, who I also thought was brooding and poetic like me, and he calls me "cheesy." Cheesy!! And he sees me as the elementary school girl handing him a valentine! And I hate that! And I am totally capable of looking at my writing from a neutral perspective, and honestly, I really don't think it's cheesy. At least not this past one. So I'm trying to decide if I just shouldn't waste my efforts on him any more, or if I should keep vying for his affection and recognition that I am NOT CHEESY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Anonymous
07:32:00 PM
5/13/2009

The Boy I just hooked up with last night: Really pretty, interesting, grating and annoying personality.

The Boy I have a crush on: Not bad looking, extraordinarily egotistical and pseudointellectual.

My "constant" boy: Pretty damn ugly, really, REALLY funny, can be a total dick when everyone else is around, also has an ego problem, makes me happy.

I wish I could find a boy who I liked for most of his characteristics instead of just a few.

Anonymous
2/28/2009
04:58:00 PM

I'm afraid I can never be satisfied having just one person. Whenever I get in a relationship,after about a week or two, I already want out and subconsciously I start to sabotage it. Well, this time, I'm with a really good guy. A great guy. Smart, funny, sweet, considerate, everything I don't deserve. He's also kind of clueless and inexperienced. But there's this other guy who I've kissed before who told me we'd never be more than friends with benefits. He's a complete ass. Arrogant, self-centered, but incredibly sexy. He knows exactly what he's doing. And I can't forget him. He started texting me again last night and I think something might happen with us again. The sad thing is I feel exhilarated. But I'm also terrified of breaking my boyfriend's heart. He's so fragile already.


Anonymous
2/23/2009
02:56:00 PM

My boyfriend is ugly.


Anonymous
08:44:00 PM
12/28/2008

this guy liked me and he certainly showed it. and i do too. i liked him too. then we reciprocated flirtations. until we hung out, and hooked up. but at school, he's not consistent with his feelings. at school he can sometimes be aloof and sometimes he'll pay attention. and sometimes he'll be affectionate. and then last weekend we hooked up again. but he's just still inconsistent with his feelings to me. i just don't what to do. he makes me so confused and i don't need this stress my junior year. i've got others things to worry about. i don't want just a friends with benefits/hook-up thing, i really really like him. he's absolutely amazing.

what should i do?


Anonymous
09:57:00 PM
9/16/2008

So I really, really, REALLY like this boy who lives in my dorm. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I feel like I know he doesn't. He'll spend days at a time hanging out with me and only me and he hugs me every time he sees me but after a few days we split up and don't call each other and I just asked him to hang out and he just said "No thanks"
Should I be freaking out y/n?


Anonymous
06:43:00 PM
9/14/2008

I have THE BIGGEST crush on the boy that lives across the hall from me. Oh my god. We like all the same music, he's SOOO sweet and we partied together last night. This year is going to be so amazing.

I'm just worried about the whole "don't date someone who lives right next to you" thing.


Anonymous
02:20:00 PM
8/16/2008

Fuck. I like a guy who likes my friend and I dont know what she thinks about it. some other girl likes him too and he knows. he confides in me,we're pretty good friends even though we have different circle of friends.....im loosing sleep because of him

uuuh...I dont wanna tell him though since it might freak him out and I might loose him as a friend. my god, is there anything I CAN do?


Anonymous
07:45:00 PM
8/07/2008

How do I trust my boyfriend? He's done nothing to make me feel like I can't trust him, but he's just so fricken friendly that girls think he's flirting. How do I stop this stupid insecurity? Please help!


Anonymous
03:04:00 PM
8/06/2008

if you just completed your first year of college and your a guy can you date a girl who is just coming into college?

If two people go on a date that might or might not be a date should they guy still pay, should a guy usually pay?

If a girl has got a crush on another guy but seems interested in you how could you tell if shes just friendly or if there is more?


I feel embarrassed just asking these questions but They are occupying the back of my mind and stuck in my head like sand in a oyster. Ive come across most of the questions/ situations before but this time it just feels different, its something I really don't want to mess up.


Anonymous
05:41:00 PM
7/23/2008