how do you decide if it is time to break up with someone? Its not love but perhaps its better than being alone... but then maybe there is something better waiting for me...


Anonymous
6/06/2010
01:15:00 AM

How do you tell someone, when they've done nothing wrong, that it just isn't meant to be?


Anonymous
02:06:00 AM
9/04/2009

today just isn't my day.

ps. leave me alone. stop texting me. i cut you off and i never want to hear from you again. ex's cant be friends. especially after all we went through.


Anonymous
01:53:00 PM
6/23/2009

This summer is very difficult for me. First of all, it sucks pretty badly living at home again after being independent for a year, an issue that many of you can probably relate to. Secondly, my boyfriend lives in the town I went to college in, only 2 hours away but still difficult to see each other what with clashing work schedules and all. I miss him. Thirdly, I've spent the last 3 summers of my 4 years in NC with who is now my ex boyfriend, so it's just kind of throwing me off. I don't remember what I did during summers before him. There's so much time to fill. My mom is pushing me to get back together with him, because she likes him a lot. So this is making me angry, on top of that, I guess my mom isn't used to not mothering someone so she turned to MY dog to baby this year. So I come back home to her telling ME how to treat MY DOG. Explaining my feelings doesn't work with her either. Nothing works. Everything is irritating me and as much as I'm trying to have a positive attitude, the people around me just keep rubbing me the wrong way and pushing me until I feel like erupting in anger and harsh words. Just the pile up of things. Grr. Thank you for letting me vent.


Anonymous
11:57:00 PM
6/08/2009

Holy tits I'm still not over him and he's going to be gone for good very, very soon.


Anonymous
02:36:00 PM
5/30/2009

When you wake up alone
Do you love me still?
Do you question the choice you made?
Do you wake up at all?


Anonymous
12:10:00 AM
5/27/2009

And, once again, I'm alone... Of course it's my fault. It must be.


Anonymous
01:59:00 AM
5/20/2009

A few weeks ago, I sent him a message telling him how much our relationship meant to me. Both the very short romantic portion and the awesome friendship prior to that. I told him how he helped me through the worst months of my life and thanked him for being there. He never responded to that message.

Since we broke up a little over three months ago, I can count the number of times he has initiated any kind of conversation with me on my fingers, despite the fact that we eat lunch together every day. Casual side-conversation, where we act like we're okay with each other, is usually the extent of our interactions. Today he casually asked how I was doing. When I responded with a "been better", he wanted to know what was wrong. I wanted to scream at him that there was no point in trying to pretend like he cared about me now.

But before all this, he was the only one that helped. When I was around him, I didn't feel like I was putting on the same show of being happy as I was with everybody else. It was genuine. Now that things have only gotten worse, I feel like I should be distancing myself from him, instead of trying to get back what we had before. But I can't. I'm afraid I'll lose the one thing that could maybe help me again someday. So I'm taking this awkward, fake civility over nothing. Not being over him is bad enough, I don't think I could handle losing him forever.

Anonymous
3/05/2009
08:18:00 PM

I had a dream last night that finally made me realize:
I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend, I've just learned to live without him. When I visited high school and he went out of his way to come talk to me I was nervous, happy, sad, and all sorts of other things. This is so hard to come to terms with but it's true. In the dream we were back together and he held my hand and kissed me and everything in the world was fine. He's all I think about with my other boyfriend.

Damnit.


Anonymous
1/12/2009
12:33:00 PM

Shit. You guys broke up. Please please please don't take the guy I like away from me. You have the advantage of being here where he is, while I am stuck 2 hours away. Please don't do it.


Anonymous
04:54:00 PM
1/04/2009

I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and I have no regrets. He was no good for me and I probably should have done it sooner, but lately I've been so incredibly horny.

All I think about is masturbating and sex.

We came close to having sex several times, but we never did because he'd always have second thoughts at the last minute and decide he didn't want to yet.

I don't miss anything about him. I just miss the kissing and him touching and fingering me.

I miss the "sexual activity" so to speak


Anonymous
01/02/09
11:11:00 AM

god this is so bad, she is going to be hurt so badly if we break up.


Anonymous
10/19/2008
06:57:00 PM

I've cheated on him, smoked weed against his wishes, smoke cigarettes and hookah and got plastered and I've done everything that I know he would hate me for..
But I've only ever loved him.
We broke up for good last night, and he says I'll never have him back, and I'm worried I'm going to start freaking out and panic like I did last time we broke up (it only lasted for 3 weeks before I couldn't take it any more.) Maybe it'll be different since I'm in college now, but it's weird not talking to him every day, no having someone to say I love you to. He's been in my life for four years, as a boyfriend for two, and I feel weird and empty without him. I love him so much but I want to do what I want to do without someone being there to mother me.


Anonymous
10/05/2008
11:50:00 AM

I wanted to break up with you once and for all but I love you and you've trapped me. Please fuck up so I have an excuse.


Anonymous
08:40:00 AM
8/22/2008

He's gone. and this time he's gone for real.

I want to scream. but more than that, I want to hear him say goodbye.


Anonymous
02:03:00 AM
8/16/2008

Sometimes it's hard to admit it's over.


Anonymous
03:59:00 PM
5/06/2008

Why are my female friends taking over my life? I just broke up with my girlfriend and now they are taking it upon themselves to let her know how much they hate her. I don't want to hurt her anymore and I don't want them to be involved in it. I know they are doing it because they care about me but where is the line drawn between supporting me and hurting her?


morethanjustajock
06:41:00 PM
5/04/2008

The bitch down the hall broke up with her boyfriend two weeks ago. She still wears her promise ring and cries every night. Get the fuck over it. Life sucks. I want to punch her in the face.


Anonymous
02:56:00 AM
4/30/2008

He likes me way more than I like him. How can I break his heart?


Anonymous
09:29:00 PM

I think we should start a discussion to create a list of break up rules, how, when and where to break up...


Anonymous
11:31:00 PM