I'm listening to the arcade fire again and suddenly I can't help but miss you. It reminds me of those cold dark nights when I sat alone in my car crying because I was left by a girl that I adored. My current girlfriend can't possibly compare. But now you're happy with some other guy.

I don't know, I guess I always assumed that, even though you're going to school halfway across the country we would somehow end up together. Fuck it. Blowjobs and an easy girlfriend aren't nearly as fulfilling as love. I miss you. And I doubt you ever think of me.


Anonymous
3/30/2010
03:19:00 AM

I just want to have sex with anyone but my girlfriend, its chase I crave not the sex itself. I miss the nights of drunken revelry and mysterious women. I am not meant to be a caged animal at least not yet. What do you do when you love someone but your not ready to settle down?


Anonymous
10:30:00 AM
3/11/2010

Lately I have been considering losing my virginity. Not to anyone I especially like, it's just that I'm 18 and being a virgin in such a sex-crazed world seems kind of pointless.


Anonymous
03:09:00 AM
9/30/2009

My libido is stronger now than it has ever been before in my two decades of existance. The only good thing I can think of that could come of this is that perhaps it will be enough motivation for me that I will actually take the initiative and find a proper girlfriend.


Anonymous
8/20/2009
02:13:00 AM

I really hate it when my sex number goes up ESPECIALLY if it's with someone I regret. I feel like the number needs to stay at 7 forever. 7's a good number, right?


Anonymous
11:51:00 AM
8/05/2009

I am so totally okay with just being his drunk booty call. Don't even start with the "degrading" bullshit. I know what I want.


Anonymous
05:43:00 PM
7/08/2009

It hurt a lot when he popped my cherry, and I bled for the next 4 or 5 times after. I never had an orgasm from sex with him until like a year after we had been having sex regularly, and even then, I hardly ever had orgasms with him. I used to dread sex. Now, I'm with a new guy who makes sex enjoyable and makes me come almost everytime! Thank God sex is no longer a chore.


Anonymous
01:10:00 PM
7/08/2009

Ladies: The first several times you had sex, was it bad? Did you feel anything pleasurable? Did it kind of hurt? Did it take you a long time to figure out how to make anything feel good down there?

Please don't let me be the only one experiencing this. I already feel so alone.


Anonymous
12:53:00 AM
7/08/2009

What do guys look for in "good sex"?


Anonymous
08:25:00 AM
6/12/2009

what do girls look for in "good sex"? or how does one perform "good sex"?


Anonymous
02:34:00 AM
6/12/2009

I answered the door naked and fucked him there in the door way. It was amazing.


Anonymous
05:45:00 PM
4/02/2009

I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and I have no regrets. He was no good for me and I probably should have done it sooner, but lately I've been so incredibly horny.

All I think about is masturbating and sex.

We came close to having sex several times, but we never did because he'd always have second thoughts at the last minute and decide he didn't want to yet.

I don't miss anything about him. I just miss the kissing and him touching and fingering me.

I miss the "sexual activity" so to speak


Anonymous
01/02/09
11:11:00 AM

okay so I have some sexual questions for those of you who are a bit more experienced.

My boyfriend fingered me for the first time yesterday (it was my first time being fingered) and I went to change my underwear because they felt wet and I didn't expect to see blood on them, but there was a decent amount of blood on my underwear and I had my period just a week ago so what is it from? is it possible he popped my cherry by fingering me?


Anonymous
10/28/2008
10:29:00 AM

when a guy fingers a girl for the first time, or anytime, does he like for her vagina to be hair free?


Anonymous
06:03:00 PM
10/01/2008

I've never been so turned on as when, today, he ran his palms over my breasts through my shirt and fingered me though my pants in the back room. He's married. He's 49. He hasn't even kissed me, yet...and I have a boyfriend.
I feel guilty, but, when I make out with my boyfriend (17) I feel absolutely nothing. Not even a spark.
'm not a bad person. I am not a cheater or a slut. I have only kissed two people in my whole life.
So I am plagued with the question...why?


Anonymous
11:55:00 PM
9/28/2008

hey if im un-circumcised should i tell my girlfriend before we have sex?


Anonymous
9/22/2008
11:55:00 PM

we had a steamy tryst in the sauna.
nobody was looking.
my shirt was becoming quite moist, and she tackled me into the pool.
she heard the call for dinner
and said, "that sounds delicious."
delicious? really?
what do i do?

PS
just finished mrs unreasonable's crazy amount of journals.

post-journal sex, anyone?


Anonymous
10:07:00 PM
9/21/2008

wow so Im in quite a situation, My girlfriend who is madly in love with me and I with her, believes that I have had sex with two girls before her, I told her this early in the relationship because she asked me and I was too nervous to tell her that I am in fact a virgin. Now our relationship has become much more serious and we are probably going to have sex pretty soon. The problem is this lie, she thinks I have experience because I made up a back story for the two girls and everything, Each piece was a white lie but together they have created a monster. Its not that big of a deal or it wouldn't be except that she is a virgin too. I want to tell her that she will be my first because I hate lying to her and the more she ask about my past the more I have to lie to keep up the previous lie that Im not a virgin. I know it will hurt her to find out that I lied to her and that is the last thing I want to do, But I hate lying to her as well. What should I do, If I tell her how should I?


Anonymous
01:01:00 AM
9/12/2008

okay so I'm definently straight. I know that for sure, but I find myself attracted to a close friend of mine for some reason.
she's really athletic and she's a low maintence, tomboy type girl. she never wears makeup but she's pretty without it because she has good skin and idk what else to say. I think she's hot and actually WANT her sometimes. like I actually want to kiss her and be close to her and like makeout with her. all the lesbians/bisexual girls and alot of guys think she's hot, but she's straight(atleast that's what she says). it's just so weird because i'm usually never attracted to girls, but god it's insane how I want her sometimes.


Anonymous
04:59:00 PM
9/06/2008

I love knowing exactly what makes her orgasm it makes me so happy to see her when she does.


Anonymous
04:00:00 PM
8/27/2008