Saturday, February 11, 2006

Why am I so afraid of losing him when I can't even bring myself to care about him? Why don't I just break up with him? I wish I knew.


Anonymous
10:26:12 PM

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think the silence surrounding this post hints at our mutual disgust at your selfishness. Breaking this one off and moving on to the next guy isn't going to solve any problems. The fact that you're treating this person as a self-validating trophy rather than an individual with real feelings shows that you should be reevaluating -yourself- first and foremost.

What if he loves you?...

Dr.A said...

Oh well I wasn't silent for that reason. In fact I disagree with everything the anonymous said.
I think that you should always follow what you want to do, first and foremost.
I think that breaking up is very necessary at times. Though I do not recommend it necessarily as a way to solve problems, sometimes it does.
If you don't care about someone and are only staying the relationship because you're afraid to lose "the relationship" or "the boyfriend" and not the person, it's time to break up.

If he loves you, then he'll understand that you don't want to lie to him.