We've been going out for a week and four days. Already I'm disengaging myself from the relationship because I'm afraid that soon I'll lose interest and break his heart.
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No offense, but why would you start dating someone if you wanted to end it immediately?
No offense but... LAME!
you guys really suck at being understanding... either that or am i really the only other person who understands this? sometimes i start to hate guys whenever they like me back. it's pretty horrible...
so i know exactly what you mean
"sometimes i start to hate guys whenever they like me back. it's pretty horrible..."
I'd say so.
you'll regret it. i did.
guys, im interested right now, but im afraid i'll /lose/ interest quickly and break his heart. im a horrible person sometimes.
um... if my brain weren't dying from sleep deprivation and "as i lay dying," i might say something like this:
don't date someone if you plan to lose interest beginning after eleven days. don't plan to lose interest in general: it happens, but maybe it would be nice to fully experience the interest and relationship before you disregard it.
i'm sorry though, i'm delirious.
I think the fact that you are worried about losing interest is a major indicator.
This worry is a self-fulfilling prophecy (yay for psychology again!) and if you focused more on the relationship and less on the possible outcome I believe the relationship would last longer and be more satisfying.
Don't worry A3, I understand completely. You aren't alone. As soon as the chase is over and things get serious the situation gets sicknasty awkward.
But then again- I went into my last relationship knowing that I wanted out, so I wouldn't listen to me.
It's understandable for the op to feel this way- go for it op!, and if you do lose interest, then oh well-game over
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