Let me do it my way...

Disclaimer: There is at least one out there who wants to know who I am. Until now, I have been unable to let them see. This post might just reveal who I am to that person, but I am past insecurity. Enough lies have been told already. I just ask that person, if they know who they are, to forget everything but what is here, on this site.

"If you stop, and think, you'll see it."

And now on to my evening angst:

Earlier this year, I lost a very dear family member.

I am greiving, I promise, but just let me do it my way. I don't need you helping me. I am going to get over it eventually.

*the disclaimer and the angst are directed to two different people*