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Saturday, March 25, 2006
Is it twisted if you imagine getting raped, and want it?
Yep, that's called being sexually submissive, and it's common to about half the population of the globe. Nothing sick or twisted about it at all. Though, I suggest you don't actually hang around dark grocery store parking lots trying to attract rapists-- just find yourself a nice, trustworthy, dominant partner and let the play-acting ensue safely.
^But on the other hand, everyone's right; it's there for about half of the population. All it means is that you want to avoid the awkwardness caused by starting a real relationship.
"Well, honestly... if a straight guy is getting raped by a woman, STDs notwithstanding.. I don't think it would be TOO big of a deal. "No.. stop.. stop... Don't rape... Wait, why are you stopping?""
As a guy I can think of maybe 1 in a million sex scenarios where I might actually feel taken advantaged of. A girl has her virginity, BAM, it's right there, whereas a guy really doens't have anything to be taken away. For him it's just Sex, I suppose.
^ Well here's what I think. 1. Woman can always get sex no matter how ugly they are someone will want them. 2. Not many guys are going to have the support of family and friends like what do they say if they were date raped?.? Their friends would laugh, and congrats. 3. Woman have more to lose. 4. Not many woman would want to rape a man. Many woman do have a dominant gene, but most don't. 5a. Also it's harded to confirm rape. Scars, or bumps from hits can easily be saw as a "accident". 5b. Also sperm in a woman can let, and checked or a baby, but in a man's case not much sexual DNA is left. 6. Not many guys will want to come out and say, "I was raped by a girl."
The logistics of a woman raping a man, as opposed to the other way around, is much more difficult, if we are following the current laws of physics. I don't think I need to say any more than that.
Did anyone hear about the issue at Duke where the Lacrosse team raped a woman who is now practically being blamed for the whole thing. "Well you're a black stripper, what did you expect?" Blaming the victim makes me sick and happens way to often with rape issues. The question is: Why?
^ have you read "the handmaid's tale"? it's like that, i suppose. and in islam, how women are "vessels of uncontrolable desire" or some such crap. damn male-dominated society! (no pun intended)
27 comments:
I...don't know.
No, I think a lot of people do- It's the most common sexual fantasy, at least among women.
...but if you're a guy, that is pretty messed up.
^Isn't that double sided?
it depends on raped by who, I guess
Yep, that's called being sexually submissive, and it's common to about half the population of the globe. Nothing sick or twisted about it at all. Though, I suggest you don't actually hang around dark grocery store parking lots trying to attract rapists-- just find yourself a nice, trustworthy, dominant partner and let the play-acting ensue safely.
Yeah, raping has with it connotations of STDs and murder afterwards. Not my idea of a good time.
Violent sex on the other hand...?
That's pretty disgusting.
^But on the other hand, everyone's right; it's there for about half of the population. All it means is that you want to avoid the awkwardness caused by starting a real relationship.
^ You mean like random sex?
that would be interesting id have to say
Me too.
Everyone could pick a number, and match up to have random sex. We'll divide it into 5 groups, bisexual,straight, gay, lesbian, and animals.
^But what if it's an ugly girl?
^meh.
"Well, honestly... if a straight guy is getting raped by a woman, STDs notwithstanding.. I don't think it would be TOO big of a deal. "No.. stop.. stop... Don't rape... Wait, why are you stopping?""
Are you that horny?
As a guy I can think of maybe 1 in a million sex scenarios where I might actually feel taken advantaged of. A girl has her virginity, BAM, it's right there, whereas a guy really doens't have anything to be taken away. For him it's just Sex, I suppose.
^I hope not all guys are like that I'll never get married.
^ you subscribe to "abstinence before marriage" then, i suppose..
^^I think you're missing something here. All teenage guys are like that. We definately will change as we get older.
Just a thought...
Why is it that in the majority of rape cases, the man rapes the woman? Not the other way around?
^
Well here's what I think.
1. Woman can always get sex no matter how ugly they are someone will want them.
2. Not many guys are going to have the support of family and friends like what do they say if they were date raped?.? Their friends would laugh, and congrats.
3. Woman have more to lose.
4. Not many woman would want to rape a man. Many woman do have a dominant gene, but most don't.
5a. Also it's harded to confirm rape. Scars, or bumps from hits can easily be saw as a "accident".
5b. Also sperm in a woman can let, and checked or a baby, but in a man's case not much sexual DNA is left.
6. Not many guys will want to come out and say, "I was raped by a girl."
^Me again: Say about all the grammar mistakes I'm on coffee, and I'm tired.
The logistics of a woman raping a man, as opposed to the other way around, is much more difficult, if we are following the current laws of physics. I don't think I need to say any more than that.
^Yeah, sex really can't be painful or invasive for guys like it is for female rape victims...well at least not the standard issue kind.
Did anyone hear about the issue at Duke where the Lacrosse team raped a woman who is now practically being blamed for the whole thing. "Well you're a black stripper, what did you expect?" Blaming the victim makes me sick and happens way to often with rape issues. The question is: Why?
^ have you read "the handmaid's tale"? it's like that, i suppose. and in islam, how women are "vessels of uncontrolable desire" or some such crap. damn male-dominated society! (no pun intended)
^^ I know rape is rape. Even if it was a prostitute it shouldn't mattter.
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