Monday, January 02, 2006

His ex saw him through harder times, and she still loves him, three years later.

She deserves him more than I do.


Anonymous
09:13:20 PM

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

If she deserves him more, give him to her. Would that make you feel better? Probably not. So ask yourself what you can do to get out of that mode of thought

Anonymous said...

She may "deserve" him more, but a lot of people deserve things they don't get, and a lot of people have things they don't deserve. It's a tough life, feel happy that you came out on top through no manipulative means (well, hopefully not, and if through the latter, just be happy with the former.)

Anonymous said...

listen to me.
not all relationships work out. but i think there is a reason for every relationship, even the ones that never end up going well. perhaps the purpose of the relationship between "Him" and "His ex" was to get him through those hard times. both of them probably came out of it better&stronger people.
love does not, and won't ever, make sense. there are plenty of absolutely amazing people out there who are lonely and heartbroken. it is not your fault that he is not with her.
also try to keep in mind that THEY BROKE UP FOR A REASON. the relationship didn't work out but they still got good things out of it right?
i admire you for being so honest&blaming yourself, but there is no need. try not to feel guilty, and enjoy your time with Him, whether it works out or not.

Anonymous said...

Love makes a lot of sense.