I think I love him and I think he loves me. Why am I not sure? Why do I feel there might be someone else there for me, if at the same time I know he might be the one?
He's my best guy friend and also my boyfriend. Am I with him because I like him or because I've just grown used to him?
He has talked about marriage and babies (not for now) but how do I know for sure he's the one? I only ever have these doubts when I'm far from him... when I'm next to him I just feel so free... away from all my problems... with someone I like and I know likes me back...
Someone once told me you love someone if you'd give your life for theirs. But I don't think I would. How do I know if I love him??
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10:52:42 PM
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Miss, I fear I share your trouble.
You know you love him when he's the first thought on your mind when you wake up, and the last thought before you fall asleep.
Don't think it's that linear... That could happen if I was married to some jackass and he annoyed me first thing in the morning and last at night.. but I get the point, thanks anyway.
I just really like him and don't want to ruin our relationship as it is by far the best I've been in.
I'm just scared it will get too serious and some day I wake up and fall in love with some other guy if that makes sense.
The movies, books and tv all tells us we're supposed to feel this way and that when we're in love... like butterflies in your stomach when you see them, thinking he/she's the most beautiful person you know... and I just don't feel that way... I don't feel the butterflies, and even though I think he is beautiful I know he's not the most beautiful person I know... But I know I love to be with him, I love to talk to him on the phone late at night, I love the way he makes me laugh and is just the sweetest guy I know. But how do I know he's the real thing? How do I know he's the one?
Oh, and marverick.. it kinda sucks doesn't it?
um in all honesty, we're in high school. you dont need to worry about the meaning of love right now.
i mean, seriously.
besides, in 20 years, you'll look back on that relationship and think "oh, we were so cute." and nothing more. not about did we love each other? etc.
"Original", it may suck, but I would like to think that this Faustian bargain for an unknown bliss is what life is all about.
I'm not in high school I'm older than most of you probably, just found this when I was looking for interesting blogs and guess I found one!
And I do think he's the one I'm going to marry. And I suppose I will always have the doubt of whether or not there could be someone else... I may even find him along the way! Or I never do and realize my boyfriend was the one for me all along. I suppose it depends on me then. On my feelings and such.
But thanks anyway everyone ;)
My aunt married the man she didn't feel so passionate about, but she said she knew he was the right guy to settle down with because they both want the same thing right now.
Personally, I don't see it, but I think it makes sense that people marry the people they aren't totally and completely in love with, but the people with whom they are compatible and have some kind of romantic connection
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